"The Mastery of Love" is a book I have loved for a very long time. If relationships are important in your life this book will be a top priority read for you this year!You can purchase it in our Wildflowers and Weeds Boutique or get it FREE with any W&W shirt or P.J.'s.
Here are a few concepts from this book that has made a difference in my life:
Love is based on respect--when there is no respect in a relationship there is a war of control and each person ends up feeling responsible for the other. When one is trying to make another responsible for their actions they are playing victim to fear and self-pity. Love is completely responsible.
Love is always kind and unconditional--fear is unkind and full of obligations, expectations and avoids responsibility. Remember that anger is just fear with a mask. Much like jealousy and sadness is oftentimes fear with a mask.
In every relationship there are 2 halves-- you are only responsible for your half. We are not mind readers, in spite of what we women desire, men do not read our minds. We can never know what another person feels!
To Master any relationship it is ON YOU-- The first step is to become aware, when you become aware of the way you communicate, if you know what IS love and what IS fear, the quality of your relationships depend upon the choices you make in each moment. When you see where you are just by changing your attention, everything around you will change.
NO one else can make YOU happy, happiness is the result of LOVE coming out of YOU.
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